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Saturday, November 08, 2008

I blame testosterone.

I am loathe to admit it but I am so over all this boy stuff lately. As the boys grow the testosterone levels are soaring and good grief it's annoying. Seems when 2 of them area round it's manageable, when that third one walks into the mix, no matter which one it is, all hell breaks loose.

Why in the name of pleasantness can they just not get along?

Why, if their absolute favourite show is on can they just not sit and watch it? Why do they have to jump on each others' heads / legs/ backs ? Oh how I miss the days of High school musical, of watching Eli dance and sing and mince about like a fairy on crack.

Who'd have thought that Ben 10 and power rangers could bring such violence and NOISE to my life, untuneful noise, with no twirling?

The constant 'YARGH! Ooof! TAKE THAT!" Makes me crazy, at 7.30am.....we maybe shouldn't even discuss that.

The need to be biggest, best, loudest, fastest is so huge it's scary, the outrage if someone appears to be beating them at anything " NO!!! I got dressed first I did, not YOU" is ridiculous.

It seems they are incapable of sitting still or walking in a straight line, everything is done with leg kicks and arm chops, headstands are a must when watching TV, apparantly.

The problem with having boys so close in age is that as soon as one outgrows a hideous phase, the next one hits it, no break, no chance to take a breath and gird ourselves for the next bout.

These 3 are so different to the last batch of kids I made. The first batch was evenly spaced, one nice boy...2 years, another nice boy, 2 years a girl. That worked out rather nicely for me.

The 2 boys got along for the most part, the girl was a whole new thing, a change is as good as a rest they say.

This time, nice boy, 11 months, nice boy, 2 years nice boy. Wouldn't you think that would be alright? Oh but it's not. Now they are all here, in a big old lump it is anything but alright. Far too much time is spent seperating them,warning them, dargging them away from mortal danger as they all try to exercise the need to be the BEST, the BRAVEST, the LOUDEST.

I miss the acre of land we had at the barn, I miss the 14ft trampoline at the horrible house, I miss them going to bed at 6pm!

They are like caged animals in this house, there is nowhere for them to go and release all this energy they have......there is only so much drawing and colouring a group of bouncy boys can do in a day. As they get more boyish, I find myself needing more girlie. Power Rangers = the need for a new pillow. Bouts of kung fu like leaping = the longing for a pretty smell or a nice plant.

If this carries on my home will be one filled to the brim with Laura Ashley and floral prints.

I shall have candles and swirly things on every available surface.

I always sent prayers of thanks for having a ratio of 5 boys to one girl, that was before I saw what fun a girl can be....now I am a little sad that I am so outnumbered by these willy wielding gitlets. I sort of long for someone who wants to shop with me, who claps hands at a new ribbon or gets giddy at the Barbie commercials.

I can only see it getting worse the older they get, they are all such BOYISH boys too ( what? Who was worried by Eli and his penchant for fluffy and pink? WHo? Me? No, I think you are mistaken!)

I have never been a frilly sort of girl, I don't swoon over scarves or boots or high heels. Make up is a light covering of whatever is needed to improve the look of the day, I hate lipstick, I get my hair cut twice a year if I remember. Manicures are a mystery to me. The only dress I remember ever buying was my wedding dress, I don't do frocks willingly.

As I age though, as I am overpowered by the masculine family I bore, I am feeling a need to make myself heard! I want them to notice that I am a woman....that there is someone here who doesn't get the whole punching, kicking, karate chopping, yelling thing.

It's almost worth crying just to see the array of stunned and WTH? expressions a family of boys/men can show at such a terrifying spectacle, just a glimse of those startled faces is enough ( usually) to drag me out of the dolldrums because they are just all so clueless!

Oh, you know what? It's time to show some pictures....some before pictures and some now pictures. I hate having my picture taken, in June when I went to Boston I had so many pictures taken I was amazed that I didn't scurry away and find a rock to hide under. I am so glad that they were taken though, because now I can compare the ones that Sophie took today, right as I swiped a sweet from Seth and stuffed it in my mouth before he could rescue it!
So...June......
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and this morning

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And June...
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( with splendid Sara, who always looks so beautiful!)

and today....

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stuffing a foamy banana and doing the typical and oft seen move of a fat person, dragging the shirt away from any lumps and bumps!!

I am so thrilled to see a change! I know I can keep going, I shall keep taking pictures every couple of months so that I can see that this is working....oh please let it keep working!!

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9 Comments:

Anonymous Gemma said...

firstly..OH MY HEAVENS i think cos i see you every week i havent noticed the difference but oh wow well done you! wish i could catch some of your motivation!
secondly it sounds liek you are describing my boys! i thought it was me being a bad mother and not ebing able to control them properly so thanks for making me feel normal and yuck for realising i have years left of it!!! arrrrggghhhhh!

9:22 pm  
Blogger G said...

You look amazing of course I thought you were beautiful before. You should be so proud of yourself. I know I am cheering you on like mad!!!
Sorry about all the boy stuff. Although my kids have been fighting like crazy lately and a girl is in the mix.

9:33 pm  
Blogger justLacey said...

Oh you look wonderful. I can't wait to see pictures from the next trip to Boston.

9:36 pm  
Blogger TheAlbrechtSquad said...

You look great! And yeah..well..boys will be boys...running and ducking out of your blog (but remember I have 3 boys and can relate to everything you wrote!!)

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4:14 am  
Blogger Cathy said...

Wow Helen, the difference from June till now are amazing! I can't wait to take more pictures of you in December.

I feel your pain with being out numbered in the house. Hence why I have 2 female cats. Now we are even ;)

12:56 pm  
Blogger Tired Mom of Six said...

Ahhh, testosterone and boys. Great combination for sending you off your rocker for sure! ;)

You look SO good, Helen. Really. I cannot wait to see you next month and see how much more you've changed. You should be super proud of yourself!

L&M you muches! xoxoxoxox

2:18 am  
Blogger sarah said...

you look fabulous.

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Blogger MamaTink said...

Fantastic! Amazing! Fabulous! Splendid! I know the others have said these things as well, but all those words popped into my head at once when I saw those pictures! Well done Helen! **Clapping!!**
~Lisa~

9:01 pm  

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