What the Gypsy said.....( added to day out post)

We had fun ....REAL fun......in Plymouth, the place where the pilgrims fathers left, you know, from here....




these very steps.....




There were fish and chips, by the harbour ( which I ate because it would be churlish not too but I counted them in and will eat accordingly all day....

And Jordan came too.....

And then Kara and I left the scared ' ooooh not ME' people and we went to see .....



which was SO fabulous and he was SO amazing and he knew me..and H..and my children. I am excited about what he said and although I don't think for a minute we should live by what these people tell us, I believe they have a gift, I think we can have fun and sometimes get some sort of confirmation that what he are doing is right, or not. I will come back and tell you what he said when the boys are asleep and all is quiet.

and we walked streets like this, with homes and restaurants like this.....




and we saw the sea and ate ice cream in the sun, which came out eventually.



there was the park and go-carts and swings and bouncy castles and much laughing and joy.

So, this is what Acora said.....

He looked at my palm and said

" wow, what a lifeline, you'll make old bones, very old, in your 90's, and you'll keep all your marbles, no putting you in a home, ever. Hmmmm, great lifeline, crap marriage line.

This man, he's there, he's a good man, he loves you and he is a very loyal man but man, you want to stick a rocket up his arse sometimes don't you? He forgets you are his wife, thinks of you as his childrens' mother and it's almost like he is a brother, not a lover.

He'll never leave you, you can trust him with your life and if he says something, he means it, he'll never say he is going somewhere and go somewhere else, he truly loves you. He's very hard to live with though isn't he, at times?

You, you're young..up here ( points to my head) you're still in your twenties, your kids keep you young, you say every day " let's do this, go here, do that" you want out and to go and do things...your husband, no, he stays home.

Kids...I see you have had a loss...how many kids do you have? ( 6) I see 2 that really stand out, 4 are just regular kids, like you and me..the other 2. You have 3 older ones, 3 much younger ones..the older ones, they're gone, grown, doing their own thing, don't need you but you're still there. God you are a good mother, a great mother. They know this, they know you are always there for them and that they are your life. Your whole life is for these children.

The 3 little ones, they will be around you for longer, in these 3 there is one that is a genius, this child's brain is astounding, he knows things, he learns everything, remembers everything. He'll go far -he'll fly. He will use his mind and you'll see him go far. He talks like an older person, you hear him speak and know what a mind he has.

Another one is beautiful, really stunning, everyone looks at him. He could be a model. You'll ask him what 2 + 2 is and he'll say " what do I care?" and comb his hair.He'll laugh. He will have people surround him and love him, he'll go far, his personality and looks will take him wherever he wants to go.

You are spiritual, really spiritual but lately you have been saying " if there is a God, why has He forsaken me? Why has all this happened to me?" It's been so hard but look, look at you now, look how strong you are, nothing crushed you, it's done, it's over, you've beaten it. You are so strong and all I see now is good.

You're like me, you see things, you know things, you look at people and never take what you hear, you can look and know that person and no matter what you have been told you know the truth. Someone can have people follow them and say how great they are and you'll look and think "huh, I wouldn't trust him for a second" You'll get invitations and know if people are sincere, that's your best friend . Dont ignore it, use it.

You have something that I don't have..you can heal, you will touch people and know if they are going to be Ok and you'll tell them, you'll hold their hand and tell them not to worry and they will get well. this will get stronger as you get older, use it and don't be afraid of it. Its a gift.

You will never go without, you're canny, if you need something you can always get it , you'll never know want.

You will have luck though. In the 3rd month ...march, in march someone will ask you to sign something, when you sign it you will think " your loss is my gain" and you'll know you will always be Ok..when this happens come and see me, tell me because it is going to great, I love it when people come back and tell me I was right. I am right, it's coming to you.

You live in a big house, a great house. Its perfect for you right now but as the kids leave you will look around and say " what do I need all this for" and you'll move, to be near water, not the town you are in now ( and he named it) I don't like that town ,too much gossip, people looking through windows minding others' business..you'll move and it will be a bungalow, bedroom here, kitchen there, bathroom there, all on one level. You'll know it and that's where you will be. Always looking after yourself.

You'll work later..as the kids get older but you'll be saying " Jean come here, do this! Mary go there!" You'll be in charge, you'll be the supervisor not just a worker.

I really want to tell you that things are all good now...the bad is done and it has made you who you are and you are great. there will be luck and I want you to know all this and come and tell me when you know I am right.

How cool is that???? So may spot on points, lots of good stuff...thins to look forward to and a feeling that he is right, that the bed is done and I can go on.

I am off to have a happy day with my genius child, who is 6 today, who wants to be a Beagle for the day.

his every wish is my command.

He didn't want a shop bought cake ( yikes) he wanted a beagle cake ( double yikes)

I am a good mother...I made this, it is pathetic but he loves it...I had to eat chocolate frosting that was stuck to my fingers and chocolate buttons that fell into my mouth, I managed not to eat the chocolate cake cut off bits...but the day is yet young. I think birthday cake made at midnight isn't fattening, I think God said that.