I think....

I might take a break for a few days. I'm sort of burned out with the whole blog thing at the moment, seems I have to drag myself here and then bore the beejeebers out of myself.....hardly seems the best thing does it?
I hope that if I give myself a break and do some lovely spring cleaning I might come up with an interesting post at last.
Cleaning carpets tomorrow, life is one big old thrill isn't it?

H and I have been at loggerheads just lately, sometimes the Jack Spratt syndrome doesn't cut it and I could just SCREAM with frustration. Times like this I see the similarities between Isaac and H, the whole aspergers thing and the absolutely head banging lack of reason and 'just because' of it all. Isaac will look at something and it just isn't right, he will never be able to tell you why, he just hates it. That's it. H too.
Today I went shopping at a store that I really like, it is not the store H likes. No problem you would think. NUH UH! Huge problem, bad me. He can't tell me WHY I must never shop at this store, just that if I do, it will be deliberately to annoy him and that will be a HUGE DEAL.
Of course, this makes me feel that now I MUST shop here. If he said ' you know that store supports child labour', or ' this store has practices that go against things I believe are important' I could see his point, but right out of the blue he says he we must never use that store, HE doesn't like it. PUT 'EM UP MATEY, let round one begin.
I could probably quite happily not shop here and no-one would lose out.......only now, because of the way he went about this I have this horrible feeling of being controlled and dictated to.
He is very set in his ways, he likes something that's that, Kirby vacuum, none other.
Fairy washing up liquid, don't even show him any other.
Wilson socks....feet would fall off should any other socks ever find their way onto his feet.
In september, Asda opened here. Walmart own Asda, we love Asda, love it. H LOVES it. In his mind, shopping elsewhere is ridiculous now, WHY? What???? NO!!!!! He is a creature of habit. I like spontaneity. I love Asda but sometimes, well hell, why not wander the aisles of Tesco, or Morrisons, or sainsbury's. Live on the wild side. ( wonder why Sainsbury's is still OK with him? Never will understand how his head works!)
This ridiculous squabble blew up out of all proportions. Don't you just hate that? I quite like how you can slip other stuff in there though and get that off your chest at the same time. I really loathe fighting though but jeez, sometimes you just have to stand your ground.
My hackles rise when someone tries to tell me to do or not do something.
I am so tired ....... I like calmness and peace. Life is too short for fighting, especially over ridiculous things like that.
So, in an effort to calm my jagged nerves, what have you fought with your beloved over that is beyond ridiculous? Go on, make me feel better. Please.